Now, let me address the topic.

I had a big problem with wars for a very long time because I couldn't understand the tactics. I learned to write fantasy without big, epic battles. Eventually I learned a bit. First I was vague, then I learned enough to pretend I knew what I was doing. (Never Doubt is one of the most battle oriented stories I've ever written, and I'm still a little unsure of my tactical knowledge.)
A flank... *sigh* Let me see if I can figure this out. Okay.
You have the main body of the army, right? A nice big square, in formation, etc. The enemy, by creeping around in the woods could come up behind them and defeat them that way. The flanks are like wings on a house, stretching out to the side. They're the one's who do the sneaking around sometimes, and in order to attack from behind the enemy has to get through them. They're like the wings on a bird. Smaller, and movable, and the protect the main army.
Since this is fantasy there can never be too many soldiers. You can, however, press the limits of the reader's imagination. LotR did this. I had an incredible time trying to actually believe in those kinds of numbers. (Especially in a pitched battle, which no one in their right mind does anymore!) But I don't know much about numbers.
