Milly Manderly wrote:
Okay, so I don't know what aspirated means...
I happen to have a dictionary to hand

; the definition it gives for "aspirate" is
The American Heritage Dictionary wrote:
Linguistics. To pronounce (e.g., a vowel) with the release of breath associated with English h, as in he.
The example that leaps to my mind right now is the contrast between the words "tee" and "thee": "tee" is not aspirated, while "thee" is.
Milly Manderly wrote:
I'm not a language expert.

Neither am I

. As with most subjects, I dabble. The sum total of even remotely formal language education (other than "language arts" i.e. "English") that I've had is three years of high school Spanish, a semester of (300-level, which was a mistake, and I'm still not sure how I passed) Spanish in college, and three semesters of Latin in college. But with parents who got a more-or-less solid background in various languages and still dabble, and my brother having taken French rather than Spanish in high school, I've managed to pick up bits and pieces here and there.

And, actually, the term "aspirate" was something I picked up in choir; we're always being instructed to aspirate words beginning with "h" even more than we were, because most concert halls tend to eat consonants, especially soft ones like "h" or "f".
Milly Manderly wrote:
Ugh...how can I say this right...? How about a recording of pronunciation to illustrate the sound I mean, for lack of a better way?

There
is a supposedly-standard syntax for writing out pronunciations, called the International Phonetic Alphabet. (And there's a variant designed for cases like this, where you can't change to the IPA font.) Unfortunately, it's more or less opaque nonsense to amateurs, and to the best of my knowledge I have yet to meet anyone who can actually read it.
