Lady Adalia Mimetes wrote:
I myself am a calvanist, my brother, Josiah, already covered what he thinks on the topic, and I agree with him. I believe that God doesn't change His plan because someone sinned. If He did, His plan is pointless, isn't it? Because if He kept changing His plan based on our sinful actions, His plan would never fulfill it's purpose because it would never stop changing because no matter what we do, we are going to keep sinning no matter how hard we try. We are His creation, not the other way around. I believe God is sovereign and we are, in no way whatsoever, sovereign. At all. Period.
For example: A Father is trying to get His child to eat her vegetables but they say they won't unless they get to eat cake first. If the Father agrees because the child might eat her vegetables after she get's the cake than He is spoiling the child and if they continue in this way, look what happens! The Father's authority over the child is reversed.
If we can manipulate God's plan that He made for the world from the beginning of time, than what is the purpose of His plan if we can change it whenever we want by simply sinning?...
So yes, I believe God is sovereign.
First, no one has actually argued that God changes His plan, as such. I think everyone here agrees that He knows what's going to happen beforehand. But that's not the same as saying that what happens is always what God would prefer happened. While I suppose it's possible that everything that happens is, in fact, for the absolute best, it doesn't seem likely to me. And when Paul talks about everything working together for good, he doesn't say anything about the best, only for good. It doesn't rule out everything being for the best, but I'd think he'd say that if it were the case. And I don't know of anything that indicates that everything does, in fact, work out for the best.
Second, what about prayer? If we cannot influence God's plan, then prayer is, in fact, pointless. You could, I suppose, argue that it's for building up faith, but I don't think it would be very effective (for me, at least) if you also believe that it doesn't do anything.
Third, I would argue that we do, in fact, have a certain amount of sovereignty, of sorts. Not over God; any influence we have over Him (if any) is only as the result of love, and isn't sovereignty. But we do, I think, have a certain amount of sovereignty over the earth. Over the created world. Remember, God put Adam and Eve in charge of the earth, and I believe when He's creating them, He talks about creating man to rule the earth. I'm also inclined to think that this is also at least part of why creation is 'groaning under the curse of sin': because we do have authority over it, and so when Adam and Eve fell, everything they ruled also fell.
Fourth, (okay, maybe I should just do these as one after another things at this point, but I already started numbering them, so I'll just stick with it...) what you have in your example is, I think, not really related to anything anyone has been talking about. I don't believe humans can deliberately mess with God's plan, and I don't think anyone else here does, either. (If anything, you might be helping it along, like the Pharisees having Jesus crucified.) I think a more appropriate use of your example would be like this:
The father's plan is to feed his daughter vegetables, and then after that, give her the cake. She refuses, however, to eat all of her vegetables, and so the father doesn't give her any cake. She doesn't have any sovereignty over him, but his plan is changed.
Finally, God's sovereignty does not require Him to dictate every move we make. In fact, He could have absolute sovereignty even if He didn't do anything; He just wouldn't be using it. I believe God is absolutely sovereign. I also believe that out of His love, He granted Adam and Eve, and through them, all of us, free will. Exactly what state this free will has been in since the Fall, I'm not sure.